my atlanta bridal shower is coming up in a couple of weeks, and oh yes, I am getting all tingly every time I check my registries, like a good bridezilla freak, oh my god, look what I’ve become, etc, etc.
Anyway, Kev’s family was, of course, invited, but they can’t make it (thank god, as they STILL don’t know we live together, and oh wouldn’t THAT be an awkward way to start out a party?) His mom generously offered that I should pick something off my registry and order it for myself as a gift, and she would reimburse me. Wow!
ummm…crap!
Because I have all kinds of price ranges on my registries, to accomodate all kinds of budgets. So…how generous is Kev’s mom feeling? I know she can afford a really nice gift…but I DON’T want to ASSUME she’d spend that much on a shower gift. This is a tricksie slope, one I didn’t feel comfortable taking on by myself.
So I asked Kev to find out what my price range would be next time he talked to her. I ASSUMED he’d be, well, not subtle, but at least make sure she knew I wasn’t digging for money, or anything.
Here’s what I heard a few minutes ago, as he spoke with his mother.
“uhh…so ESC wants to know a dollar amount limit on her shower gift from you.”
GAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!
dammit.
*sigh* that’s Kev for you - hopefully, she knows that’s HIS wording, not mine!
and the answer is VERY generous. Eep! What do I get??? Practical? Something we can use now? One of the more extravagent items that we don’t really have room for until we move?
At least my mind is off my BARE PATCHED CONCRETE FLOOR!
***update***
after careful deliberation (about 10 minutes) I’ve picked out my gift: the bedding - quilt, blanket, shams, and a sheet set. NOT a cheap gift. Which Kev has assured me is fine, after teasing me that he’d just tell her “I TRIED to get her to pick something cheaper, but she’s just a GOLDDIGGER*“ dammit. I am firm. And I will order soon.
*she ain’t hanging with no broke ***ger
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